Why have a suddenly become so broody!!! I have been having dreams about having a baby girl..... and it feels great, but in my dream by boyfriend isnt so fond of the idea!!! to be honest, i dont think him feeling this way is just a dream!!! we have been going out for 3 years yet i dont feel like he is ready to settle down. He is alot older than me so he has experienced more than me. He has never been married or has had any kids so i would have thought that he would be happy about the idea of having kids, all of his mates have got married and had kids, why doesnt he want to?? I just hope he wants to. There is nothing i want more than to have kids and settle down, i'm only 21 but this is all i want, he is 44 and doesnt want to settle down............................................................... what do i do. I'm scared that if down the line, i fall pregnant and he doesnt want it.........